Your biggest failure sounds like a wake up call. The police probably saved you.
I had a friend, tell me this story about him and his best friend.
They were delebrating his best friends birthday and new years, while driving around drunk.
If a cop had found them beforehand, it could've spared my friend his own best friends life.
Yeah, his best friend died on his own birthday which was on new years.
Anyways, my biggest failure in life was allowing myself to waste so much time, instead of spending it doing things that matter most, with those who matter most.